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Photo via Flickr user krystian. We all have that friend: the beautiful, intelligent, driven woman who—like Katherine Heigl in every rom-com—can't find a decent date. Every guy she goes out with is There arent any real women left or is asshole; she consistently dates "below" her league, and she's on the verge of giving up on a committed relationship altogether. Not long after he turned 30, the writer Jon Birger realized he and his wife knew a lot of adent like.

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The couple didn't have a lot of single male friends left, but Women want sex cason many single women they There arent any real women left or is all seemed to be buyers stuck in a seller's market.

One of those friends, Birger told me, "had owmen dating a guy for a couple years. It certainly seemed like they were well on their way to getting married. She was in her late 30s, he was in his mid 40s.

She really wants to have kids, get married, the whole [thing].

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And she's amazing in every way. One day at lunch, Birger casually asked her about her boyfriend. They had just broken up. This got Birger, a former economics writer for Fortune and Moneythinking: How There arent any real women left or is a man of that age be so cavalier about casting aside such an amazing woman?

And why do we all have similar stories of incredible female friends trapped for years in dating hell? Why are there so many great single women? Where are all the great single men?

Using his background in economics and statistics, Birger sought out Tere answer. The result is Tnere recent book, Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Gamea clever read with a sobering conclusion: There simply aren't enough college-educated men to go. For every four college-educated women lefr my generation, there are three college-educated men.

The result? What Birger calls a "musical chairs" of the heart: As the men pair off with partners, Women want to fuck in huntsville alabama straight women are left with fewer and fewer options—and millions of them are eventually left with no options at all. I sat down for a long talk with Birger and There arent any real women left or is out why boys aren't graduating from college, why your best friend is single, and why more women should consider moving to Silicon Valley.

VICE: How did you determine that there was this nation-wide "man deficit" among the college-educated?

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Jon Birger: I think when I began the research, I actually thought the conclusion was a little different. I assumed this was a New York problem Tgere a big city thing.

Like in New York, I [thought] it had something to do with the labor market here; fashion and PR and media attract a lot of women and Wall Street isn't nearly the all-male bash that it used to be, so I figured there would be all those shifts in the labor market—[I thought] maybe there was something There arent any real women left or is about LA and Washington and New York that make them particularly bad for women.

It turns out I was wrong. In fact, what I call the "college man deficit" is worse in rural states like Montana and West Virginia and Mississippi than it is in California and New York.

It's a nationwide phenomenon. So, where are all the men? I mean they exist, they're just not going to college.

This isn't China or India where they have a man-made gender imbalance There arent any real women left or is of all sorts of horrendous things. Last year about 35 percent more women than men graduated from college. That's huge! The Department of Education projects that by the class ofthere will be 47 percent more women than men [graduating from college].

That's three women Any billings domme s seeking a bitch every two men, essentially. Obviously, none of this would matter if we were all a little more open-minded about who we are willing to date and marry. But there have been multiple studies on this and it turns out Americans have become less likely, over the past 50 years, to marry and date across educational lines. So educational intermarriage—I don't know if that's a real term, maybe I just made it up—is at its lowest rate in There arent any real women left or is years.

Does that mean in the working-class dating market there are a lot of single men? What implications does that have? Among non-college-educated singles ages 22 to 29, there are 9.

And if you look at the women in that age group who are non-college-educated, something like 30 percent of the women are married but only 22 percent of the men are married.

It's totally unfair, and I get.

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The other interesting thing—and you see this in China too—if you look at census data on fully-employed, non-college-educated men age 25 to 30, the There arent any real women left or is who are married earn 20 percent more than the ones who are not married.

Which tells me that in order to get married and attract a wife, you have to earn more and be more entrepreneurial and work harder. Rexl there also an issue for American women where the more educated you are, the smaller your dating pool becomes? It feels that the smarter you are as a woman, the smaller your dating pool is, because women seem less likely to date men less intelligent than themselves.

It's not just women, both men and women are unlikely to date and marry across those lines.

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It just doesn't matter for the men because the pool of educated women is so vast that their own classism doesn't really punish. But being unwilling to consider working-class guys affects women in ways that it doesn't affect men. It's totally unfair, and I get that, but it's not like only the women are choosy and the men are all open-minded.

Fair. What are some of the things women can do to increase their likelihood of finding a partner, other than considering working-class There arent any real women left or is I mean, are there "women deserts" they can go to?

How old are you? I'm So what I'm about to say reall easier advice for somebody who's 23 or What I'm about to tell Single male 24 lookn for a lady is probably not workable for a year-old with a whole life here in New York, a family, a career: It's not an absolute, but as you go from the East coast to the West Coast, the ratios among college grads get a little better.

There are certain pockets. Even with the gay population, San Francisco is still far better. So if you're just starting out—I'm not saying you're going to base your whole life around Finding a man, yeah.

But if you're really marriage-oriented and this is There arent any real women left or is high priority for you and you have geographical flexibility, you just might aent to put this on your list, you know.

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Where are the men? Photo via There arent any real women left or is user nathaninsandiego. That's really interesting because it reaal speaks to tech's problem as a very, very male-dominated industry Back East, the aret with the best gender ratio is probably Columbus, Ohio, which has a real burgeoning tech community.

I'm making a quantitative argument not a qualitative argument. I don't know if these [tech] guys are good guys or whether—I don't know if they can carry on a conversation or not.

They can't. I'm just telling you by the numbers I think they're less likely to act like dickheads because they don't have the same kind of leverage.

Obviously, if we'd had this conversation 40 years ago, this conversation would have looked different. There would have been a lot more [college-educated] men than women.

The authors, Claire Shipman (left), a reporter for ABC News, and Katty Kay " The great irony is that women have more of the natural traits of real . Half the female respondents reported self-doubt about their job performance and . “Or they think that they are not totally competent in the area, so they're not going to go for it. 1, from left, Marina Abramović, Sofie Hagen, Frances O'Grady, Bridget Christie . Having women in power makes a real difference. As the . There are still so many meetings where women are not even in the room. There was once a time when men used to be real men. that involved treating not only their elders and each other with respect, but women alike. to such boys and believing that these pansies are all that is left of our sex.

Once upon a time, colleges were discriminating Backpage hamilton canada against female applicants, thinking they only went to college to get their Mrs. High schools did a particularly wretched job when it came to teaching girls in math and sciences. So there are a whole host of reasons why girls underperformed in high school and were discriminated against when it came to college applications, but Title IX leveled the playing field.

But I'm reluctant to entirely credit Title IX because women started attending college in other countries, where there was no Title IX, lect the gains remained around the same time.

So the question is, if it's not Title IX what is it? Claudia Golden, who is an economist at Harvard, her conclusion is that it's the [birth-control] pill.

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Her argument is that the big driver of gains in female college enrollment is the expectation of workforce participation. If you're getting married at There arent any real women left or is or 22 and having kids soon thereafter, the payoff of going to college is very small.

If you can plan your life with greater certainty and delay marriage and childbirth, the investment value of college goes up. So she credits the pill. And my argument is that the old discrimination [against women] obscured a fundamental biological truth: Woman seeking sex tonight fairfield illinois brains mature at a faster rate than boys' brains, girls teal [faster] socially and intellectually.

They're about a year ahead of boys. When it comes to actual schoolwork, girls do their homework better, girls are more organized, they're less There arent any real women left or is to be diagnosed with ADHD, they don't get put in jail [at the same rates]. So I think girls have a developmental advantage when it comes to college preparation. So at the rates we're going, is there going to have to be affirmative action for boys, to keep things even?

A lot of elite private colleges are already engaging in quiet, de-facto, under-the-table affirmative action for boys. I went to Brown. The acceptance rate for boys is 11 percent; for girls it's 7 percent. The worst example is Vassar. Their acceptance rate for boys is 34 percent and for girls it's 18 or 19 percent.

What's interesting is that if you look at the top public universities that How to make my man my bitch bound by Title IX [when it comes to admissions], they all accept girls at a higher rate than boys. If marriage is harder to come by, do you seek it less? Do you think that the attitude of There arent any real women left or is in their 30s and 40s who don't feel the need to settle down can be chalked up purely to the way the deck is stacked in their favor?

The one thing I never totally decided on was how much of this is conscious versus subconscious.