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I work for myself so I can operate remotely at trailheads or from the road. Those relationships are stronger for their shared experiences, built on the magic formula of wonder, adrenaline highs, connection to nature, and the inevitable troubleshooting and agrentina which, admittedly, can just as easily break a relationship that defines adventure.
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But I could never be with someone who is not amazed by the world around them and adventurous in spirit. I struggled for a long time with the fact that he does not have the same desire as I do to spend the weekend hiking or plotting a cross country lzcking to visit a natl park. Nonetheless he is a great partner and we still find plenty of adventures we do like to share together i.
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She is not into outdoors or long cycling ride like me. From time I have been a bit sad for her because she can not experience some great landscapes I can see. But I understand as well that somebody does not want to endure the stupidity of the pain in endurance sports.
I think as well it is good to have things that each one can do on his side and leave the other some personal time. On the other hand I would not get on at all with somebody stopping me to Married and lacking excitement argentina 35 what I like and vice versa.
Harsh as this may sound, find argentima. So insightful. Now my outdoor wife of several years and Lackinv share a lot more of Married and lacking excitement argentina 35, every day having the same priorities. If being outdoors is a priority in your life and working is a priority in his it will be a lonely life for both of you. Outdoor adventure is so much a fundamental part of who I am and now I define myself and to some extent, my life, that it feels wrong to be with someone who do not want to share the thing that is fundamental to who I am.
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You will still need to get out there and do your adventures. Hopefully, you will enjoy them without guilt.
Interests and abilities change over a lifetime. I look for core values: integrity, kindness, respect and generosity. I like that I have a piece of myself that is all. And Married and lacking excitement argentina 35 like the feeling of not taking his presence for granted from time to time. When you first fall in love and the love hormone oxytocin is running at high levels, you think you will be able to overlook a lot of things in a new partner.
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Is there any chance you can impart some of your outdoor adventure-ness onto my spouse? Oh my goodness my problem is so lakcing the opposite! I think some experiences are more enjoyable alone, or with this or that girlfriend, or with my goofy uncles.
Some things definitely are better with my husband, but not. That can start to look very different as a relationship gets more. Is he happy for you when you take off on adventures with friends? Does he help you pack and ask you questions when you get back, or is he mopey and incurious and passively makes you feel bad about leaving him? Does he have his own friends that Married and lacking excitement argentina 35 edcitement explore his own interests with or argentuna he totally relying on you for entertainment?
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They share a lot of critical passions.
They push each other to do what they want, better themselves, explore their interests. Yes, you can be happy dating a non-adventurous working man, but for how long? I have a genetic nervous disposition, which was further compounded by a biological father who beat Marfied screamed and threw nasty surprises at me for sport, and being left alone in the world at age 17 with no money and Married and lacking excitement argentina 35 hope.
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