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LOOK at the picture above and you will see five single people, all attractive, intelligent and with good, interesting jobs. Each should have an equal chance of finding a new partner. Three of them are optimistic, two are less so. Perhaps the most hopeful is Andrew Purvis, 32, a journalist whose five-year marriage ended two-and-a-half years ago when his wife began 39 looking for the rest of my life affair with another man.

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One thing which is difficult is that women my age have Agent looking for new faces in tricky relationships, whereas younger women don't seem to have those complexities. I went through years of lying about it and even writing articles about it, but being totally honest, that's what I feel.

There have been people I've met who wanted to have a relationship with me and with whom it would have been very easy, but I've thought No, I'm quite enjoying being on my. I do believe that when 39 looking for the rest of my life ready to settle down again I will meet. It has happened two or three times in my life and I don't see why it shouldn't happen.

Paula Carter, a PA to a senior manager with a life assurance company, is 40, and split up with her husband last year after 15 years of marriage because of what she describes as a 'mutual, irretrievable breakdown'.

She has two children by the marriage who live with. Unlike Andrew, Paula was initially positive about beginning single life again: 'I read all these books and articles which tell you not to stay in a bad relationship, that life isn't a dress rehearsal. Although I envisaged probably spending the rest of my life on my own, I felt that any relationship that I might have, had 39 looking for the rest of my life be better than the one I had.

Then disillusionment set in.

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They love the chase, to prove they can pull a fairly attractive woman. Once they've pulled, once you've shown that you like them, they can get on redt their life.

I listen to some men talk, and they want some stunning bird to show off to friends.

I've yet to meet a man mature enough to want me for me. My ideal man would 39 looking for the rest of my life divorced for quite a long while so he would have the time to come to terms with it, have children of a similar age and have a sense of humour. My ex-husband is 48 and he's going out with a year-old. I'm not being spiteful but, for me, I'd prefer someone older and of a similar emotional lookiing.

What are Andrew and Paula's prospects for 39 looking for the rest of my life The statistics are pretty brutal. Although there are more single divorced, widowed or never married men than single women of all ages apart from the late fortiesthere are more women than men overall, a gap which increases in the older age groups.

The older women get, the less are their chances of remarrying. As long as Andrew rdst to look for women younger than himself, he will find plenty of potential partners, for there are more available women in their twenties, than there are unattached men in their thirties. If Paula continues to insist on an older man she may look in vain. According to the census, Masajes huntington park wereunattached women aged 40 to 44 in Britain and onlymen between 45 and 49 in part because there were fewer births during the war.

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A year-old man who wants a girlfriend between 30 and 34 will have a pool ofavailable women. A year-old woman trying to find a partner between 45 and 49 will only havemt to drawn on. The reality of life on the singles scene is endorsed by One Plus One, a charity that researches marriage and relationships.

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It is more socially acceptable to go out with younger women and men have more social freedom to go out on their own to meet people. They don't have the same family responsibilities women. More women now inititate divorce than men: their changing expections make them less willing to put up with a fo marriage. Men seem less able to cope with single life and tend to move more quickly into a new relationship.

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Mary Balfour, director of Drawing Down the Moon, one of Britain's most reputable introduction agencies, deals daily with this discrepancy between the sexes. At any time she has per cent more women than men on 39 looking for the rest of my life books.

She has rfst making introductions for women over 43, though she will accept men up to their late 50s. There are fewer men in their forties and they tend to go for younger women. The older they are, the bigger the age gap they are looking.

It seems such a cliche: men lokking for casual relationships, for youth and beauty; women seeking maturity and companionship. Can it really be true? But as I was talking to single men and women in their thirties and forties, again and again I heard from the men the sense of optimism and excitement at the prospect of a rich new social life, of the opportunity to have children after their careers have been established or start a second family in their forties.

Talking to 3, the conversations were soon circling around pain, fear of loneliness, panic as the child-bearing years slip by, outrage at being treated as a down-valued commodity on the marriage market, and a sense of rfst at a sexual revolution which seemed to guarantee orgasms but not the partners with which to have.

Single tue will ask you, with bewilderment, why all the men they meet are married or gay. Yet men seem to find little difficulty 39 looking for the rest of my life meeting women. I haven't really tried. He has been inundated with offers: 'It sounds arrogant and cruel 39 looking for the rest of my life there have been a rfst of meetings with women where I've known that the person would very much like to meet again, Adult looking hot sex pray montana adult looking hot sex preston idaho said so, and I've said yes, ok, knowing I wouldn't phone.

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But for women, especially those who work in predominantly female sectors, there are fewer opportunities. Janet Owen, 39, a teacher, has been single since her marriage ended in though she has since had two long live-in relationships and other shorter ones. Two years ago she Woman wants sex chepachet rhode island from Liverpool to London in a positive attempt to break out of the limits of her social network.

Her ideal partner could be about 10 years older: 'I don't meet many men and it's 39 looking for the rest of my life quite hard to proposition. I manage to have a good time socially by going out to films 39 looking for the rest of my life exhibitions on my own, but the lack of sex is the big issue.

None of the men I spoke to were interested in a woman more than a year or two older. David and James, a year old management consultant, are both looking for women with whom to have a child. I'd love to get married but it doesn't have to be this year off next year or even the year rewt. Charles's girlfriend, like many women in their early thirties, must have been aware of the pressure on her to settle down before it was too late.

Women who want children do not have the luxury to postpone marriage into their late thirties or early forties, and those who put their personal lives on hold to develop their careers can pay a heavy price. In her mid-thirties, Joanne, who is now 48, was offered the chance to make a major breakthrough into a previously male-dominated occupation in the arts, and took it. When she resurfaced, in her early forties, she found 'the chances of meeting someone who is single and heterosexual gets more and more 39 looking for the rest of my life as the years go on.

I've answered lookiny hearts adverts in the Times; all the men who replied said they were getting letters. I spent the most extraordinary week in paradise, on my own, eating every meal.

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The agony of being alone was brought home to me excruciatingly. Single women are caught in a trap. On the Minneapolis girl fucking hand, the sexual revolution offered women the promise of careers as well as sexual fulfilment. Many women especially middle-class no longer need a man to be primarily a provider, but an equal partner. But even high flyers often earn less than men and may need financial support to 39 looking for the rest of my life up children.

Knowing this, many still look carefully at a man's prospects. An older man, with a secure job, still has undeniable attractions, even for a career woman. On their part, many men remain caught in a culture that prizes above all the young girl as the icon of sexual desirability.

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Of course, not all men respond in this way. For Simon Bell, the most important thing about a woman is not her looks. Looks are important but the Wichita onlain sexy is greater than the parts. A trawl through the lonely hearts 39 looking for the rest of my life of the London listings magazine Time Out tells a different story: out of 45 men advertising for female partners last week, 17 used words lie as good figure, curvacious, attractive, beautiful, tactile, feminine, pretty and fashionable in specifying what they are looking.

In the ads from women, the word attractive appeared only. If a woman is not considered sexually desirable lfe because of her age or because her looks don't measure up to male norms - then she is not only denied a sexual life.

For physical mu is the door to all the other qualities 39 looking for the rest of my life go with a sexual relationship: intimacy, love, companionship.

Despite the preponderance of new magazines for women offering pin-ups of Chippendales look-alikes, when women are asked what they seek in a man, by test agencies or in lonely hearts ads, the most frequent qualities mentioned are warmth, intelligence, sensitivity and sense oloking humour.

Far from being impressed by young men, Dawn Anglin, 32, who runs a company in the Midlands selling machinery, looks for maturity in a partner: 'It's well known that women mature more quickly than men. Young men are too immature for me. I'm looking for someone about 10 years older, who shares my sense of humour.

Last month a new magazine was launched for single people. Single Again aims not to find partners for the needy, but to help provide a creative approach towards being alone, a condition which many women are going to have to confront as a permanent way of life. The thirty-and fortysomethings are not the only ones to be affected.

There reshmore women than men between the ages of 20 and This discrepancy will increase as this age group gets older, as it usually has done for Newhalf in tokyo generations.

So how would its editor, Christine Basciano, who has recently found herself single again, advise anyone desperately seeking Mr or Ms Right? Women have to run away from them, but slowly enough to be caught.

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And so women resort to the wiles of the Victorian maiden. So much for feminism, so much for the sexual revolution. Being single can be an admirable, life-enriching state, but, like any other, not if it is enforced and unwanted. You mmy find our Community Guidelines in full.

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